desi_gurl

Dekhi lakh-lakh pardesi girl
          Ain′t nobody like my desi girl
          Dekhi lakh lakh pardesi girl
          Sab toh soni saadi desi girl
          Who's the hottest girl in the world?
          My desi girl, my desi girl
          Thumka lagaike she′ll rock your world
          My desi girl, my desi girl

Don't make quick decisions when you are overwhelmed because, at that time, everything feels out of control. Your emotions are at their peak, and they push you towards making the worst decisions. You may do things that you regret later, so it's better not to make your life even more miserable when you are already in a miserable state. All kinds of negative and angry thoughts start appearing in your mind. That negative pull inside you takes control and leads you to make the situation even worse.
          
          I understand these kinds of situations where you are alone, battling with yourself, trying to stay composed for the sake of people who don't understand you or your condition, not even a little. To some people, it looks like overreacting or throwing tantrums, but the reality is very different. One of the biggest problems is when people refuse to even listen to your explanation because, in their minds, nothing you say is right. Sometimes, the environment people create becomes so suffocating that you just want them to forget about your existence. Thinking like this can be a sign that you have been suppressing your feelings for too long, even beyond the stage of emotional numbness. It is a reminder that you need to start paying attention to your mental health.
          
          We are not just living; we are surviving, and that is part of life. To survive, you need to be aware of the situation you are in. There are positive ways to survive, so you don't have to keep running towards negativity. Sometimes, negativity comes running towards you for no reason because it has become a habit, and habits take time to change. How much time? That depends on you. It may look impossible, but it isn't. One of the biggest lies an overthinking mind tells you is that it is impossible to become a better person. If you keep believing that lie, you may never break out of the overthinking loop. The choice is yours. You are worthy of becoming the best version of yourself.

~ will you read paper hearts ( my book ) if you get time ~
          
          *Timtimati ankhe* 
          
          Leave kar dena agar bore lage to 

Friendship is a relationship that isn't connected by blood, yet it connects people so deeply that many find it easier to share their life problems with their friends than with their blood relatives. It is a bond that brings strangers together and slowly builds trust between them. I know nothing is perfect, and friendship is no exception. It doesn't have to be perfect. There will be ups and downs, arguments and forgiveness. Some people have been friends for months, while others have stayed friends for many years. Some are still close to their old friends, while others have different stories, and that's okay.
          
          There are people out there who call themselves unlucky or unfortunate just because their friends left them. I'm not here to lecture you about things you already know. I'm writing about this topic because many people are not only hurting their mental health, but they are also shaping their thinking in a negative way that won't help anyone. No one is born perfect, and humans don't have to be perfect. We are simply human beings with emotions. You did your best. You did your part. You showed genuine emotions, and you truly cared. But people have their own minds and make their own decisions. You can't force anyone to stay or choose your bond.
          
          You are not an unworthy person just because you don't have old friendships anymore. People choose to leave. Sometimes they give reasons, and sometimes they don't. You shouldn't keep putting yourself down because of that. You did whatever you could, so focus on that. Why always focus on the negative part? People come and go, and some bonds are hard to forget, but you can't stay stuck forever. I know it isn't easy, and I understand that no one can truly measure your disappointment or your pain. But you shouldn't carry that burden for too long. I hope the best things come into your life. I can't take your pain away, not even with words, but I truly hope they bring you some comfort and help you feel a little more at ease.

Some days are just confusing for us. We can't come to a conclusion about what is actually happening to us. You feel every emotion at once, and at the same time, you can't even name what you are feeling. You don't even feel like doing your favorite activities, and you also don't feel like interacting with your loved ones. Days like these also exist, and they are difficult to go through because nothing makes sense to you during those times. And it's even more difficult to explain it to someone when your own emotions are confusing to you as well.
          
          One of the hardest feelings to explain is when your emotions become confusing. You are not happy, but you are not completely sad either. You want someone to understand you, but at the same time, you don't want to talk to anyone. You feel like crying, but your tears don't come out. You feel like saying so much, but your mind gives you no words.This is what confused emotions can feel like.
          
          Many people think they are becoming cold or heartless because they don't react the way they used to. But the truth is, sometimes your mind becomes so tired that it stops expressing emotions the way it normally does. It is not because you don't care. It is because you have been carrying too much for too long.
          
          Imagine carrying a heavy bag every single day. At first, your shoulders hurt. After some time, you stop noticing the pain because your body gets used to it. The pain is still there, but you no longer react to it in the same way.Don't overwhelm yourself by thinking that you are being ridiculous or that something is wrong with you. It's okay. You are being normal. Things will make sense one day. I know it's painful for you right now, but never lose hope.

Hiii♡...would like to check my first book? 'Partnered by fate'..
          https://www.wattpad.com/story/411736951?utm_source=android&utm_medium=link&utm_content=story_info&wp_page=story_details_button&wp_uname=tinkerbelllline

To kaisi chal Rahi hai zindagi 
          
          Aam ya mentos 

Everyone has a different story and different goals to achieve. We all have different ways of fulfilling our dreams and following our passion. Each one of us faces many difficulties and has to endure a lot while trying to cope with everything in our daily lives. Sometimes you may feel that there is no possibility of successfully reaching your goal because of the hurdles you face every day. At times, you become mentally and physically exhausted, which leaves you feeling numb, and you don't have the enthusiasm to continue your work. Let me tell you, that's normal.
          
          Some days are exhausting. They make you feel like you just want to lie on your bed and do nothing. You don't feel productive. Some days, procrastination is at its peak, and there is nothing ridiculous about it. It happens, and you shouldn't blame yourself too much. Make a mental note that days like this exist, and you can make up for them on your productive days. Productive days exist too, so don't forget them. Just because some days make you feel lazy and exhausted doesn't mean you should start feeling worse about yourself.
          
          Another thing is that when people fall on their way, they often consider it a failure. But falling on your way is not a failure. You have only stumbled; you haven't reached your goal yet. You will face obstacles along the way, so remember that. Don't let people who have never set a goal judge you, because they don't know the value of hard work and hardships. Their words may hurt, I know, but don't let their judgment get so deep into your mind that you start losing your motivation to achieve your goal. When you fall, it means you are putting effort into something, and you are serious about it. That should be your mindset. It's painful to fall, but that pain is a sign that you are not giving up on your dreams and that you still have hope within you.

When you decide to stay positive after being negative for a long time, your mind starts making you regret many things. It's so easy to feel negative because your mind is always ready for it, but staying positive needs courage and strength.
          
          You aren't ridiculous for overthinking. It's just that your mind goes into defense mode because it senses danger. A positive mindset requires a lot of strength. Negative thoughts make it difficult for your brain to move towards positivity because it takes effort and time. You don't become positive all at once. It takes time and patience.
          
          The more you keep putting yourself down mentally, the weaker you become physically. Remember that. Your mental health is connected to your physical health. When people disappoint you, treat you harshly, or do anything that frustrates you, you automatically start putting yourself down mentally. Your energy gets drained. Even though you expected the situation because of your overthinking, when you actually face it, everything feels different and much harder.
          
          I'm not saying that you are weak or overly sensitive for reacting this way every time. No, it's natural and normal to feel like this. But protect yourself from getting too emotionally damaged because, in the end, you are the one who suffers.
          
          Hold yourself together, piece by piece, even if there are still people out there blaming you for no reason. I know it's difficult.  Every effort you make is more than the bare minimum if you have been through so much and are still moving forward.
          
          You are a brave person for not losing hope. Maybe you don't realize it, but you are doing more than enough. Try to see yourself in a positive way. You spend a lot of time overthinking negative things, but also remember this—you haven't given up. Just think about everything that has happened, and yet you are still trying your best.

A blank mind is the heaviest to carry because it's filled with thoughts that don't know their way out. It blocks the thoughts that could help you understand the hurricane happening inside you. A blank mind has many kinds of thoughts. At one moment, you feel like you can pour them all out, but then you suddenly wonder what is actually happening to you. You become a puzzle to yourself. The more you try to overcome it, the stronger that negative pull becomes. You overthink everything and start assuming what will happen next. 
          
          People often think having a blank mind means there is nothing to think about. In reality, it can happen because your mind is carrying too much. Sometimes you have so many thoughts, emotions, and worries that your brain becomes exhausted. Instead of thinking clearly, it simply goes blank.
          
          Have you ever been asked a simple question, but suddenly you couldn't remember the answer? Have you ever wanted to explain how you felt, but no words came out? Have you ever stared at a book, a phone, or a wall for minutes without knowing what you were thinking? That is what a blank mind can feel like.
          Many people blame themselves when this happens.
          
          Just like your body becomes tired after working all day, your mind also becomes tired after carrying stress, overthinking, fear, sadness, or pressure for a long time.
          
          A blank mind does not mean you are weak or unintelligent. It does not mean you have nothing to offer. It simply means your mind has been carrying more than it could handle.
          
          The mistake many people make is becoming angry with themselves. They force themselves to think harder, work harder, or ignore what they are feeling. But a tired mind does not become stronger by being punished. It becomes stronger when it is understood.
          
          You do not have to solve every problem today. Remember, having a blank mind is not your identity. It is only a moment, not your whole life. Be patient with yourself. Even the busiest sky becomes clear after the storm passes.