sometimes, i hate to be in a relationship. family, friend-ship, best friend-ship, love relationship. being in a relationship means that we have to fulfill what another expect from us. it also means we're expecting something from someone in our relationship (no matter what kind of relationship it is). that is the hard, tiring thinf to do. think about it, how will you feel when youre failing to fulfill someone's expectation? if its me, im gonna be on depressed, stressed, sad, down. Every negative feeling will haunt me. and how will you feel, if your expectation to someone isnt like what i have to be. every negative feeling will haunt you too.
conclusion is, the negative value of being in a relationship is everyone will start to have expectation. and expecatation will lead to negative feeling elicitation. thats the poin why i dont like relationship.