5-14-02 birthday.... just in case
Remember not all things are bad there. Sure there a crappy people in fandoms that ruin everything but there is is always that small glimmer of good people in a fandom. So just move through the paces. We all fall in to found or out of them. Sometime you come back to a fandom and realize that there is good and only focus on that part. So yea remember the good and try to ignore the bad.... it'll still haunt you the bad but if you don't touch it it'll hopefully be okay. Also smiling will make you feel better without you realizing it.