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Let's try this with variables: B contacts A wanting to be their friend. B is a Youtuber let's say. A sees that B is very funny and wow they speak the same language. A is comfortable since all of his other friends don't speak his language. A checks out B's YouTube channel Now B is a shitty person, having done unspeakable things. But recently his uploads are quite mundane. A checks them out. None of his recent uploads seem abnormal. And of course A doesn't have the time to flip through years of his content to see the bad things Considering his job is very demanding after all. So A befriends them. They y'all about home, their favourite music, anime, god knows what. A decides: wow I can finally open up to someone older than me who understands me. A follows B on Instagram A goes live. A wants to flaunt his new friends, including B. Now he just met B, followed him a few seconds ago. But he's seen B's latest video, had a laugh at it. Recommends it to his entourage. Thinks it's funny. No harm done A goes under fire. Sees B finally for who he truly is. Unfollows him immediately. Regrets not spending hours scrolling through years of B's videos and posts to find the disgusting stuff B is posting. A feels like shit. His entourage tells him to KHS
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