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I don't get why people think having a friends with benefits is immediately toxic it can be without communication it only becomes toxic when one falls for the other and the other can't return the feelings. Its between two people who have a understanding with one another its just like saying girls can't have a guy best friend because one of them will fall for the other when most of the time their best friend is like a brother/sister to them what if they grew up together your going to tell them to stop hanging out with each other cause your fucking toxic, its so stupid and I dont agree with any of that ugh I'm just frustrated.