@edgeofwonderland For me, I used to say I had no label because “lesbian” was a word I could never really use for myself. Even now, I think part of me is still scared to fully put that label on myself, but I do think I’m a lesbian. I mean… all the evidence is kind of there 😭 Just be true to yourself. It can be hard and it can take time to understand and accept what you feel, and that’s completely okay. You’ll start noticing things about yourself as you go. And remember, sexuality is a spectrum. You don’t have to force yourself into a label if you don’t want one. If somebody asks what you are, you can literally just say, “I love women.” That’s it. 😭 I’m also not fully out at all and I write wlw😭so it’s super annoying sometimes having to hide what I love doing. Just be gentle with yourself!