the sad thing is, Gerard never resorts to violence. whenever I watch yeah it's funny sometimes but it literally makes me want to cry because Frank was just standing on the speaker and lost balance when Gerard came over. Gerard's mic fell and you can literally see Gerard is punching Frank and shoving him to the ground. the next shows that played, Frank looked extremely sad, yet of course he continued to play well. and at the black parade is dead!, live in NJ, the concert after this, Gerard kisses Franks forehead, Frank looks really sad, and never looks up from playing guitar, and when all the members get off the stage for Gerard to do cancer, Frank stands by the speaker and watches Gerard. Gerard also skipped the line "you know that I will never marry" because he also married Lindsey around that time, another reason making Frank very sad. another rumor is, Ray saw Frank crying after the wedding.