ein_opferkind

I'm tired. And I don't mean that in the sense of "sleep deprived."

ein_opferkind

My father doesn't believe that I'm autistic. He thinks that psychology is a lie and that psychologists would diagnose anyone because they get money for it (which is not true; they get paid for the appointments, not for giving out diagnoses) and that's all they want. When I said that it's like accusing regular doctors of deliberately misdiagnosing their patients—because that's literally what it is, they ARE doctors—he responded that I was being stupid and that he wouldn't discuss such things with me ever again because I'm “prejudiced.”

MonteCristoDonut

@ein_opferkind 
            dude... Wtf.
            Uno reverse. Bro is stupid. More than stupid *skull emoji*
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ein_opferkind

Was ist eurer Meinung nach wichtiger: Recht oder Gerechtigkeit?

Ellanisana

@ein_opferkind Ich schließe mich an, definitiv Gerechtigkeit.
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Oni-the-Wicked-fan

@ein_opferkind Schwere Frage, aber ich würde Gerechtigkeit sagen. Hab grad keine Begründung, es fühlt sich einfach nur richtig an, wahrscheinlich aufgrund eigener Erfahrungen (die ich hier nicht teilen möchte, da sie zu traumatisch sind, aber sagen wir kurz: emotionaler Missbrauch vor 3 Jahren und ich bin bis heute traumatisiert)
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ein_opferkind

@Brennender_Goldfisch Denke ich auch. Die schwierigste Frage bei dem Thema ist meiner Meinung nach jedoch, ob und wann Selbstjustiz vertretbar ist. Ich hab letztens ein Buch gelesen, da ging es darum, und es hat mich sehr zum Nachdenken gebracht.
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ein_opferkind

Fun fact that's not fun:
          
          Vaping is just as bad for your health as smoking, if not worse. The saddest part about this is that many people who vape switched from cigarettes thinking that it's healthier even though it's not.

Ein_Wasserkind

@ein_opferkind yeah like people know damn well how fast drugs make you addicted, 12yo me didn’t know that Binge eating is Even a thing and yeah it’s just really different
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ein_opferkind

@Ein_Wasserkind I know, that's the problem with addiction and also the reason why many addicts refuse to acknowledge that they're addicted, but I'd argue that as you said things like binge eating are a very different category from vaping/smoking/drugs. The latter can do much more damage in a much shorter time and also gets you addicted much more quickly.
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Ein_Wasserkind

@ein_opferkind I mean I think it's more abt stuff like vapes that are actually like super harmful but I kinda had a binge eating disorder and ofc there I also knew it's damaging but yk when you start of small you're like "oh a little bit is not that bad" until the amount of how much and how often you consume it gets worse until you can't get off of it, and I just think that thinking that you could control yourself easily is the main thing that makes you think "its not that bad"
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ein_opferkind

TW: Drug use & addiction
          
          Did you know that Chopin was addicted to painkillers and died from an overdose? He was chronically ill and started taking them as a teenager, and unfortunately, the only available effective painkillers at the time contained opium and morphine, which meant that in order to achieve the same effect, he had to keep increasing the dosage constantly because those are highly addictive substances. Many of his works were written under drug influence.

ein_opferkind

Musstet ihr auch „Nathan der Weise“ lesen?
          
          Ich find's traurig, dass so ein Typ, der vor über 200 Jahren gelebt hat, eine bessere Einstellung hatte, als so manche Menschen heutzutage...

minusgradseele

ja haben das buch vor drei jahren ungefähr gelesen
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FlowerWinnie

@ein_opferkind I heard of it but I haven't read it I think, ohh yes Ringparabel I know, I had that in ethics
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ein_opferkind

Historians when talking about Chopin's relationships:
          
          “Oh you know, there's this one letter he wrote about a singer in his conservatory days in which he described her as his ideal and said that he dreamed about her constantly, so he was definitely madly in love with her!”
          
          “But... But... There's no proof he was in love with [insert any “friend” who was definitely not just a friend]! Well yes, there are erotic love letters, but... you know, friendship was different back then!!!”
          
          Yes, it was, but that's because what was “friendship” back then would most certainly be an (often asexual, but not in this case) romantic relationship today. Just accept that queer people existed, it can't be that hard—

ein_opferkind

Wie steht ihr zum Thema Militär? Nicht bezogen auf die Wehrpflichtdebatte, sondern halt Militär allgemein. Und würdet ihr für euer Land kämpfen?

ein_opferkind

@Togruta-Girl Da stimme ich dir schon zu, nur ist es eben momentan leider so, dass es nichts besseres gibt... Es geht mir ja auch nicht um die Nationalität derer, die ich verteidigen würde, sondern darum, dass es Menschen sind. Auch wenn einige leider Arschlöcher sind.
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Togruta-Girl

@ein_opferkind Also prinzipiell kann ich mir schon vorstellen, zu kämpfen, aber definitiv nicht für dieses Deutschland, dieses Frankreich, diese EU, diese NATO.
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Togruta-Girl

@ein_opferkind Also bis auf den Teil mit dem ich würde kämpfen stimm ich dir zu 100% zu
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