So... I hate manwhore-cocky-selfish-jerk-cheater-not virgin-hero books.
Seriously hate them.
Why would I read some book about the hero being with other women or cheating on the heroine? Or him being with thousands of women while the heroine is judged if she has slept with someone?
I prefer a 100% safe book. Even if the hero is not a virgin. He has to be 100% faithful, and if they separate for a while, then he has to be celibate.