Hey Elly! It's me Althea. Just saying, if anyone says anything negative to you, you will get through it. It's okay to take it personally depending on what they say to you. But what 'He' said to you is NOT okay. Don't let their hurtful words change you, don't let their words mold you into something THEY wanted you to be. I've had some people say VERY hurtful things to me, but I used their words to build me up as a person. I didn't turn myself into what they want me to be, I used it to remind myself "prove them wrong." People who say hurtful stuff, want you to depressed or sad. Don't give them the reaction they want. Just. Laugh. Laugh at how stupid they are for trying to break you down. Build yourself up to prove them wrong. You can't fit in if you were born to stand out. Luv youuuu