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just here to call some bullshit on some people i shall not name.
if you can’t respect your other half, and, instead give them shit because you feel as if you need their world to revolve around you, that’s not a healthy relationship — it’s toxic.
if you deliberately make them feel like they’re the ones to blame instead of you, that’s gaslighting — it’s toxic.
if you purposefully post something in public talking shit about them that you KNOW they can see, that’s not tea — it’s toxic.
your relationship is not based on love or feelings, you’re depending too much on someone who has things to do in life. their world does not revolve around you. it never has.
i’m done playing around.