don't know you, I don't trust you, so I won't just give myself to you. And he proved me wrong. He fought for me, gave me all his attention, even passwords when I never asked and we weren't even official. Ten years later, I don't go through his information. I have all his passwords but I trust him. He's never given me a reason not to and I've never given him a reason to doubt me. We don't allow temptation in. There is no such thing as best friends of the opposite sex. There used to be, back in the day of course, but slowly it became just him and I. We are best friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. So the lesson I learned through my parents was basically to harden my heart. It made it difficult for you to get to me and he tried for months, close to a year and that's the kind of guy you deserve, not someone who will give up on you because you're "playing hard to get." It's not playing games, it's keeping your heart safe so I get it, I don't blame you. But there's a lesson in what you see whether it's to teach you or someone else and it will be put to good use eventually. May God continue to bless you for having a beautiful heart. Not everyone can speak like that with sincerity. mwahz sending many blessings your way.