@fireplaceashes-
as someone who lives in a red state, i'm fucking terrified.
also. it's so stressful to be an american ,, i should've been born a cat.
wdym they wanna take away electricity ,, i have my name copied into my pinned messages just to mass sign petitions.
happy black history month !! sending love to all of you ❤️
TO AMERICAN FOLLOWERS:
since we have been pulled out of w.h.o and now have difficulty finding reliable information on diseases & their severity, there has been (rightful) panic. today, i found someone on tumblr who was spreading word about w.h.o newsletters, where we can sign up & gain access to the news we're missing. please spread the word !!
https://www.who.int/news-room/newsletters
autisming out with lottie on a rainy day # win
the acne breakouts during your period are unhinged and criminal
tweaking my oc book a little bit !! ellie-marie & rebekah's forms will be back up soon; as the first ones i published, they need a little extra workshopping ❤️
"i/dians need to go back where they came from" mf you are on MY LAND.
i have awful luck but i'd say one of my cats escaping on the anniversary of my grandmother's death was an entirely unnecessary piece of proof.
@ksf2005 ; thank you so much for the kind words, sweetness <33 i hope i can give good updates very soon. she's such a feisty little girl (im the only one she likes :')) and i'm sure she'll bode fine for the night, but you know how the worry sets in. thank you again for being so sweet and thoughtful, i'm thinking of you and your babies as well ❤️
@fireplaceashes- i’m sure you know this already, but try putting a litter box outside. if you can get it, i’ve also heard mackerel has a very strong smell that they like. also, put any clothing/bedding/fabric that may smell like like you, or any other animals in your household. i really wish i had more ideas for you, love, but she’ll be back. <3 you have such a sweet soul, and she knows it. if you can get access to a trap as well, that would also be a good idea. and tomorrow, walk the roads, sidewalks, check ditches, etc. thinking of both of you, lovely. <3
tw ;; death
today marks one year since i lost my grandmother. last year, i spent the entirety of january in the hospital at her side, bouncing between uncertainty, dread and hope. no one had any way of knowing how it would turn out, not until those final days, and they were the worst.
but i got through it. now a year has come along without warning, and no, there was no way to prepare once again. but - and at the risk of sounding cheesy - i really think it was made easier by my friends. my nanny never met a stranger. if she ran into you, she talked like you had grown up neighbors. she was funny, outgoing, blunt (god rest her soul, that woman was NOT beating around that bush) and always interested in being there for people. i'd like to think that, as shy as i am, i was able to inherit some of those traits. i hope she's proud of the woman i'm becoming, and i know in my heart that she's part of why i didn't face this one alone.
it's been one year. love has persevered once again, and because she helped raise me with this belief, i believe it always will.