hello everybody !!
this is the first time i've logged in to wattpad since i stopped writing fanfics.
i am here just to say a proper goodbye to the wattpad world. it was a beautiful and supportive place when i needed it. now, I'm giving all my time to my dreams, my faith and my music. i haven't read or written . fanfics for almost a year now, because i decided that it's not always healthy for me to do so. if you still love it, i am not shaming you in any way. this is a personal preference and a big decision in my life.
when i read and wrote fanfics, i started to place unrealistic and unhealthy expectations on the guys i liked, to be able to fit the fairytale personas i had once been infatuated with. it was harmful to them and i decided that my personal strategy to combat this is to stop thinking about what they could have done and to focus more on what kind of a better friend i could be to them is to distance myself from fanfics completely.
also, i'm unpublishing all my work here too.
it's been maybe.. 10 months?
and i've never been happier with the relationships (friends, family, etc) that i have in my personal life. i am going to stick to that plan and i hope you don't get offended by what i'm saying here.
i want to take this time to say thank you to everybody i've made friends with here in this beautiful community. you are all wonderful people and if you want to contact me from now on, do drop a dm at @/humlody on IG. this is where i document my life and my music. i haven't publicised the fact i write and read fanfics to my audience there just yet, it's something i've forgotten due to focusing on other things.
there are a few friends i've made here and on LINE and i'm still so close to them. all wattpad did was give a platform to communicate and bon more. the real effort was communicating when it's inconvenient. i appreciate that very much !!
this is goodbye, wattpad.
much love,
regina hum :D
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