You kept ignoring her, each and every time she tried to reach out to you, because you thought she'd always be around. Yet, now that the tables have turned and she's no longer calling or checking up on you, you're wondering why she's no longer paying attention to you. It's simple, you taught her how to live without you...
and that's exactly what she's doing. 
- M. Sosa

Carpe diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary. 
- The Dead Poets Society