update: it is unfair for me to base my opinion of xiaoven off of some people i’ve seen around online. there are many people who portray zhongven in a very simple, boring way as well—and a lot of the time they are painted in only a sexual light (which is unfortunate, because their dynamic as friends is so much more… fun </3 [imo!]) . however, i think i’m stuck in this zhongven hole now LOL, and will be for a long time. goodbye xiaoven, and i am sorry </3 .