gale4307

Vaguely angry rant ahead, tl;dr at the end, please, *please* read.
          	
          	I am so sick to god of writers not including autistic  characters.  I know it's been said a thousand times, but I swear to all things holy I am so sick of it.
          	
          	If you're not including autistic characters because you're worried about offending people? I'm autistic! I will proof read your stories! I will answer questions! DM me and I'll tell you everything I can think of and more if you ask!
          	
          	Just please, *please*, for my sanity, write autistic characters!
          	
          	
          	tl;dr: I'm autistic and mad about lack of representation, will beta read your stories and/or help with writing autistic characters.

nunyartist

@gale4307 EX! ACT! LY! So many people will do it for free because the bright feeling that grows in your stomach from seeing yourself in media is payment enough for them!! I know I’d be a sensitivity reader for free just to see more people like me in programs and books!!! 
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gale4307

@nunyartist EXACTLY! I will gladly do it for free! It never occurred to me to charge for it, the reward is f*cking representation!
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nunyartist

@gale4307 YESSS! I HATE when people use the excuse of being fearful of misrepresenting. LIKE THERE’S A VAST AND WIDE INTERNET OF MARGINALIZED PEOPLE! IT AINT HARD TO ASK FOR ADVICE AND SENSITIVITY READERS BECAUSE M A N Y ARE MORE THAN WILLING TO!! Like some for free, too!
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gale4307

Vaguely angry rant ahead, tl;dr at the end, please, *please* read.
          
          I am so sick to god of writers not including autistic  characters.  I know it's been said a thousand times, but I swear to all things holy I am so sick of it.
          
          If you're not including autistic characters because you're worried about offending people? I'm autistic! I will proof read your stories! I will answer questions! DM me and I'll tell you everything I can think of and more if you ask!
          
          Just please, *please*, for my sanity, write autistic characters!
          
          
          tl;dr: I'm autistic and mad about lack of representation, will beta read your stories and/or help with writing autistic characters.

nunyartist

@gale4307 EX! ACT! LY! So many people will do it for free because the bright feeling that grows in your stomach from seeing yourself in media is payment enough for them!! I know I’d be a sensitivity reader for free just to see more people like me in programs and books!!! 
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gale4307

@nunyartist EXACTLY! I will gladly do it for free! It never occurred to me to charge for it, the reward is f*cking representation!
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nunyartist

@gale4307 YESSS! I HATE when people use the excuse of being fearful of misrepresenting. LIKE THERE’S A VAST AND WIDE INTERNET OF MARGINALIZED PEOPLE! IT AINT HARD TO ASK FOR ADVICE AND SENSITIVITY READERS BECAUSE M A N Y ARE MORE THAN WILLING TO!! Like some for free, too!
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gale4307

I know I've pretty much abandoned this site, so yeah, sorry, but I'd just like to share that I do believe I have hit an all time low.
          
          If you're feeling bad about yourself right now, just remember that at least you're not eating cold pasta in your bedroom at 4am scrolling through angst on Ao3, listening to Twenty One Pilot covers.
          
          At least, I assume you're not, because if you are that's a weird coincidence.

formerlyskys

@gale4307 // oh lol- I'm glad :)
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gale4307

@Skys26 I believe you misunderstand. The pasta's delicious, the fanfics are well written, and the covers are actually really good.
            
            Although I do appreciate the hug ;)
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gale4307

this message may be offensive
ya know what that whole "if you're gonna half ass it don't even bother" is the dumbest more neurotypical orientated bullshit i've ever heard in my entire life for fucks sakes—
          
          cleaning half your room is better then none!
          doing half your homework is better then none!
          drinking half a glass of water is better then none!
          
          some days "half assing it" is all u can do and thats okay. dont let them get u down. u can do this. i believe in you.

-pennence-

@gale4307 :> you da bestest
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gale4307

@ZeRealKirishima || You're welcome, love. *hugs back* Remember to take care of yourself :).
            
            @carniebratjas1 || Honestly, valid.
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carniebratjas1

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@gale4307 the only thing I don't half ass is being a bitch
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gale4307

Me, age 8-- *wakes up at least 6 times from 12am to 6am on christmas*
          
          Me, age 15-- *sets an alarm so I don't get physically removed from my bed by a small riots worth of over excited small children*

FuzzyFemboy

 i dont have little gremlins waking me up i have 33 alarms then wake up 2 hours later 
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moon_dusted

@gale4307 my family we race to be the first to wake up. The last person up gets a pitcher of ice water dumped on them come Christmas morning
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searmius_

@gale4307 that’s a fat mood (also you just reminded me to set an alarm so thx)
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gale4307

If you're telling your daughters not to wear shorts/skirts in their own damn home because "there are men in the house", I think you need to reevaluate what kind of men you're letting into your house.

nunyartist

@gale4307 I always find it even more jarring if they're like "don't wear that in front of [insert male family member]" cuz that's CREEPY!! Like if some guy looks at one of his younger female family members in a sexual way, HE'S the problem, not the girl in this situation.
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gale4307

I hold firm in my opinion that conspiracy theorists have never been project managers.
          
          Do you have any clue how hard it is to get even six people to show up on time and keep their mouths shut for a week?
          
          And you wanna say thousands kept quite for literal decades?
          
          Your optimism is adorable.

gale4307

HOW TO BE A PRODUCTIVE HUMAN
          
          
          Idk if this will work for you it works for me so yeah.
          
          
          
          Instead of saying "I'm going to do do my homework/get out of bed/drink some water/whatever now," say something like, "I'm going to count to 4/6/10/whatever and then I'm going to *insert productive thing*."
          
          
          It works so much better for me, having a little bit of overlay between switching between things.
          
          
          Stay happy, healthy, and safe y'all. Love ya!

gale4307

IMPORTANT
          
          I'm writing a story (not a Solangelo fic, sorry) where the main character is from Italy. She was born there and moved to America at age four. I, as a white agender pansexual Canadian, am trying to make it as diverse as possible, while also making sure to include the struggles my characters may face as minorities.
          
          Now for the question. If this sounds offensive, I am so, so sorry, but I'm truly just trying to be as culturally/racially accurate as possible. Would Italians be considered white? Or would they be Latinx? According to a couple things on google I scrolled through, not all Latinx people are Hispanic and therefore Italians are Latinx, but other sources say that Italians are white?
          
          Again, so, so, so sorry if this offended anybody in anyway, just let me know if it did and I'll take it down immediately and rephrase it with your help to be more sensitive.

gale4307

@VesperAverySage Thanks for the advice! I'll definitely look into it more.
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