try them out!!! i went back and forth on she/her and they/them and she/they obsessively, overthinking whether id regret going with a specific pronoun publicly and wondering whether my friends would still accept me if i went back to my og pronouns... just trying them out with people i trust irl was what finally had me figuring things out !! they werent upset at all when i wanted to try they/them and went to she/they and then back to they/them