hey, i just wanted to rant about something so maybe I’ll feel better about it afterwards.
so i just went to this recurring social event that my mom has been wanting me to go to because she thinks I’m not social enough. I have an amazing friend that goes there, but my mom didn’t like them because they have short hair and that’s ‘tRyiNg to bE a bOy’. They DO identify as an agender person, and they ARE gay. (My mother doesn’t know either of those things because she would lash out). It really sucks having homophobic parents because I don’t know if my mom will let me go back. My mother even had an opinion on my old friend too. I feel like it’s never good enough for her, she just wants me to have her idea of a ‘perfect friend’. Also I didn’t want to eat dinner tonight because I was mad and my mom was like, “look what’s happening already. They are influencing her that way.” To my dad. No it was because SOMEONE (my mom) judges people before they even meet them and automatically thinks they are a terrible person based on what they do to their ‘hair’.
I just needed to vent, i do feel a little better now :)
all i can say is, i can’t wait to be an adult and not be so controlled by my mother that is legit the definition of a Karen.