@TrippyBoi333 bro please have some sense ….I am speaking from my mother’s experience….Do you think your wife would like to be in your second priority?lol before saying things analyse first ….Having a good relationship with your mother is hella different than being totally going with her words without analysing what’s right and wrong.You should damn decide yourself and learn from your mistakes when you are an adult…but rather you men just lean on mothers …Ofcourse you can ask for advice but the decision should be taken by you and not by your mother …is that so freaking hard?
And mothers ….well guess what?most Indian mothers that I have come across are just freaking obsessed with their sons and literally take their wives as competition …like bruh?He is freaking married and he should have his privacy and priorities…after marriage his family ie his wife and his kids should be put first but that doesn’t mean he should not take care of his parents when in need (talking about health issues)
Giving your whole salary to your mother is not at all appreciated and if in a joint family,you are giving it to her without asking your wife,then bruh you are the freaking red flag…have some freaking respect for your wife goddamnit.
When a woman marries you,she thinks of you as family giving you priority and thinks that she should increase the family status and wants to run the family herself duh…and not giving her the salary is not at all commendable
I don’t know why the freak you said that I was a red flag …I am just speaking practically and on behalf of women who just think that it is freaking okay when it is totally not.