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ive gotta get something said rq
when someone is taken, you do not pressure them into engaging
in sexual rp or romantic roleplay, especially if they've made it clear they
don't do that kind of roleplay. it is not only disrespectful to them but also
to their lover if you try to make intense advances- advances of any kind
on them. something else that irritates me about this is that whenever
you tell them you're not comfortable with it, they get mad at you and ignore
you like YOU did something wrong. that's on an intense level of toxicity and
making someone feel bad about their decision isn't going to make them love
you or wanna be around you. im sorry, but that's homewrecking and it's wrong.
i've seen this happen many of times and it hurts me that those people have to
sit and feel like shit because they rejected someone on that kind of thing. what's
even worse is that the ones in the wrong are treated like a victim and get people
to send hateful shit to that person for no reason. that's on some real goon shit right
there. thank u for coming to my ted talk