so hypothetically speaking, if you meet this girl and your both obviously interested so you send your friend to ask for her insta BC you have crippling anxiety, and she gives your friend the insta and one of her friends tells her she's going to tell her boyfriend so you and your friend look at eachother sadly but she still insists in giving it to you and tells yo that she has a boyfriend but not a girlfriend, but you're still disappointed and sad then a few days later she shows up at a little party in which you are playing in BC you're in a band and stays all the way thru your set and then talks to you all night and then says she really wants to kiss you but she shouldn't bc she's still with her boyfriend, then later you're still talking and have been for weeks and she breaks up with her boyfriend and then stops speaking to you, what would you do? hypothetically obviously