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thanks to kalvin garrah im STILL unlearning the transmedicalist mindset. when i first came to terms with the fact i was trans, kalvin was one of the first youtubers that helped me realise that. however, he also perpetuated the harmful mindset that you NEED to want surgeries and hormones and to pass fully to be "truly" trans. yes, you need disphoria. no, medical transition is not necessary. but, even though i know this now, i still feel like im "faking" my dysphoria because i'm scared of getting surgeries (i actually really want top surgery but i'm terrified of getting surgery so i'm still very unsure) and honestly this was just a fuck kalvin garrah (and blaire white) psa