gtgmindingmybiz

I have a situation on my hands and I want honest opinions. Am I in the wrong for not calling my cousins in the last month. I was like my cousins support system and I used to check in with her all the time but I got busy with school and stuff I've either been too tired or too busy and I just got back in touch with her on Wednesday and now she says she's having eating and sleeping g problems and I feel this is my fault. Like I know I probably should've never ghosted her like this but it was  not on purpose things happen. 

Pp_on_caca_coconut

It's understandable that you got busy with school and other responsibilities. However, it's important to make time for the people you care about. You're not necessarily in the wrong, but it's important to acknowledge that your cousin may have been feeling neglected. It's great that you got back in touch with her, and now you can support her through her struggles. Love you, and if you can’t talk to her, recommend a therapist!
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gtgmindingmybiz

I have a situation on my hands and I want honest opinions. Am I in the wrong for not calling my cousins in the last month. I was like my cousins support system and I used to check in with her all the time but I got busy with school and stuff I've either been too tired or too busy and I just got back in touch with her on Wednesday and now she says she's having eating and sleeping g problems and I feel this is my fault. Like I know I probably should've never ghosted her like this but it was  not on purpose things happen. 

Pp_on_caca_coconut

It's understandable that you got busy with school and other responsibilities. However, it's important to make time for the people you care about. You're not necessarily in the wrong, but it's important to acknowledge that your cousin may have been feeling neglected. It's great that you got back in touch with her, and now you can support her through her struggles. Love you, and if you can’t talk to her, recommend a therapist!
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