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@gwrmie i know this must be really tough, but i hope you can find the strength to stop being fazed by their comments! it's easier said than done, but i believe you can do it if you really try! please do NOT try toxic dieting because it can cause serious health problems! it is okay to want to lose weight, but always be healthy while doing so. and i really hope you surround yourself with better people, because they're not your friends if they pick on you. also, do not forget that your opinion matters the most. prioritize yourself and put yourself first! you should do whatever you feel the most confident with! i hope u feel better soon <3

@gwrmie NEVER. EVER. go for those toxic dieting like ever. I know what I'm saying is pretty basic, but believe I had this same concern that was inflicted by my friends but opposite. I was skinny. Like tooo skinny enough that they made jokes and always measured my wrist , piched my waist and shoulder and called me stuff that no one likes to hear and I was 5ft at that time. 
            
            So many boys from my class always joked ' if a wind pass, she'll be swept away' Or ' hold onto her before she could flew away' such things to my face and so much worse behind my back. But I didn't call out or defend myself at that time cause that 'friends' were all I had, and I would be pushed alone to a corner. So I didn't. 
            
            So after highschool I started a  healthy diet and became so much better but, I always hated that I didn't defend my younger self as I should while criticised her instead just like those 'friends'.  
            
            Dieting and everything is okay only to a line which you should never cross it. Dieting should make you healthier and toxic dieting is everything but healthy. So I would never encourage you to take that path, and what you need is comfortable in your own body. DO NOT hear those 'friends' words and accept yourself first. 
            
            -And you should surround yourself with better people before it's too late babe :(
            

@gwrmie first, i am so sorry that's happening to you. that isn't something anyone should go through. i myself is also not even five feet and pretty chubby/curvy and my own mom jokes about it and makes me feel horrible, but i don't really care. as long as you love your body, and you feel like yourself in it, then that's all that matters. if you want to diet because you want to do it for yourself, then do it. but if you're only doing it because others said so, don't. people will always judge. always. if someone lost weight, they'll go "why aren't you eating enough" but if they gain weight, they'll go "why are you eating so much?" in this society, we can never please others. just focus on yourself and your happiness. whatever you do, whether you don't diet or do, as long as you do it for yourself, because you want to. not for others

okie my dearrrr

maybe enemies to lovers :))

thank you so much dear for your
            kind suggestion and yeah, it doesn’t 
            sound bad at all . i am kind of free
            this days so i may even make it ^^
            any specific troops you would like to
            suggest? 

sure ! you can . thank you so much for asking ! 
            

@hyukami I was thinking of jiheon from fromis_9 !!

@gwrmie yuqi from gidle

Rosé from black pink?