People always say 'learn from your mistakes'
But how am I supposed to learn from my mistakes if im afraid to learn in case I make a mistake?
Society taught us that mistakes equal failures but teachers have taught us that mistakes equal a learning opportunity so what is it? Teach me what opportunities come from mistakes, instead of teaching me that a opportunity comes from a mistake, how am I supposed to take that opportunity if I don't know what that opportunity is, and how it will help me... im afraid to make mistakes because I know I will never forget them... the idea of mistakes are to point you in the right direction by teaching you whats wrong but, I don't know the right direction because I can't help but focus only on what I did wrong... I did something wrong and that makes me a dumb, loud, unreliable, and selfish person which is everything I don't want to be...