hanak0s_ashes

Why are feelings, or love in general, so complex and scary-? I can’t seem to understand if they really like me or not... and I’m growing concerned that I’ll (once again) let go the opportunity to finally gather courage and talk to them... I dislike being such a shy person-
          	
          	I’d be happy if someone were to kindly see if any of the following are signs that they’d like to talk to me too. That way, I’ll know if it’s finally time to speak to them. You guys don’t have to if you don’t want to either way! :D
          	
          	I just can’t keep hiding this feelings any longer and will rest easily knowing that at least some people know of this. After all, it’s human nature to express or discuss how we feel towards others- (Or so I believe...)

hanak0s_ashes

Thank you so, so much for encouraging me, @Analtaccount2 !! I’ll give it a shot and set a deadline too. They could end up transferring or viceversa, you never know-
          	  
          	  I’m happy that you opened up to me and spoke of your person of interest as well! Don’t worry, I’m very sure things will play out right it’s long as you’re being yourself. There’s always a possibility. The power of personality in terms of attraction should not be underestimated after all! Platonic or romantic, I’ll be cheering you on :)
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Analtaccount2

@hanak0s_ashes I think he might be interested in you, whether he wants to be friends or more I think you should talk to him, I actually have a guy who is quiet and I am a bit interested him on becoming friends, but although we talk a bit ts kinda hard since I'm always surrounded by my friends. So I'm pretty sure he wants to talk to you but is socially awkward, though I'm 50% sure I'm wrong or something I still think you should talk to him!
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hanak0s_ashes

What do I know so far?
          	  
          	  We don’t talk to each other, we share two classes together, I would usually see them every weekday after school (not hang out, just see them), we’re both pretty quiet, and are in the same grade. One of my acquaintances has a crush on one of his friends, and they’ve known each other for quite a long time. (Could come in handy if I want to start talking to my crush). My crush seems introverted with a playful, kind, gentle, intellectual, sweet and cute side to him.
          	  
          	  
          	  
          	  Who noticed who first?
          	  
          	  Well, on the mid-end of September 2021, I so happened to be observing my surroundings like I’d usually do, (I’m very curious and observant) when I noticed a tall boy with bangs, glasses, and white T-shirt, sitting four seats away from me in my APWH class, looking at me. I tilted my head in curiosity as to why he was doing that at first, but then I realized I had been making eye contact with him for more than 5 seconds. So I timidly looked away. Since then, I’ve grown curious of them and wanted to get to know them for who they are as a person. Why were they looking AT ME? How long had it been happening for? Was it since the very beginning of school? Why did they wait for me the other week? Why are his friends always looking at me? Why does he send mixed signals some days and other days he send signals as clear as day? We don’t even talk nor know anything of each other! I just want to know... I need answers (T-T)
          	  
          	  
          	  
          	  And I’m not even pretty- I’m very average and there’s more attractive girls in the classes we share. I’m insecure and don’t stand out much. So why me? I don’t have long or beautiful voluminous hair or good looks like most girls in my school do- So why me?
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hanak0s_ashes

Why are feelings, or love in general, so complex and scary-? I can’t seem to understand if they really like me or not... and I’m growing concerned that I’ll (once again) let go the opportunity to finally gather courage and talk to them... I dislike being such a shy person-
          
          I’d be happy if someone were to kindly see if any of the following are signs that they’d like to talk to me too. That way, I’ll know if it’s finally time to speak to them. You guys don’t have to if you don’t want to either way! :D
          
          I just can’t keep hiding this feelings any longer and will rest easily knowing that at least some people know of this. After all, it’s human nature to express or discuss how we feel towards others- (Or so I believe...)

hanak0s_ashes

Thank you so, so much for encouraging me, @Analtaccount2 !! I’ll give it a shot and set a deadline too. They could end up transferring or viceversa, you never know-
            
            I’m happy that you opened up to me and spoke of your person of interest as well! Don’t worry, I’m very sure things will play out right it’s long as you’re being yourself. There’s always a possibility. The power of personality in terms of attraction should not be underestimated after all! Platonic or romantic, I’ll be cheering you on :)
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Analtaccount2

@hanak0s_ashes I think he might be interested in you, whether he wants to be friends or more I think you should talk to him, I actually have a guy who is quiet and I am a bit interested him on becoming friends, but although we talk a bit ts kinda hard since I'm always surrounded by my friends. So I'm pretty sure he wants to talk to you but is socially awkward, though I'm 50% sure I'm wrong or something I still think you should talk to him!
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hanak0s_ashes

What do I know so far?
            
            We don’t talk to each other, we share two classes together, I would usually see them every weekday after school (not hang out, just see them), we’re both pretty quiet, and are in the same grade. One of my acquaintances has a crush on one of his friends, and they’ve known each other for quite a long time. (Could come in handy if I want to start talking to my crush). My crush seems introverted with a playful, kind, gentle, intellectual, sweet and cute side to him.
            
            
            
            Who noticed who first?
            
            Well, on the mid-end of September 2021, I so happened to be observing my surroundings like I’d usually do, (I’m very curious and observant) when I noticed a tall boy with bangs, glasses, and white T-shirt, sitting four seats away from me in my APWH class, looking at me. I tilted my head in curiosity as to why he was doing that at first, but then I realized I had been making eye contact with him for more than 5 seconds. So I timidly looked away. Since then, I’ve grown curious of them and wanted to get to know them for who they are as a person. Why were they looking AT ME? How long had it been happening for? Was it since the very beginning of school? Why did they wait for me the other week? Why are his friends always looking at me? Why does he send mixed signals some days and other days he send signals as clear as day? We don’t even talk nor know anything of each other! I just want to know... I need answers (T-T)
            
            
            
            And I’m not even pretty- I’m very average and there’s more attractive girls in the classes we share. I’m insecure and don’t stand out much. So why me? I don’t have long or beautiful voluminous hair or good looks like most girls in my school do- So why me?
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