life just saddens me. why do we have to fit into modern-day beauty standards? why do we have to get back in shape after having a baby? because we aren't attractive enough? because we have a belly from the bundle of life we just carried? people wonder why women get "mommy makeovers". because, women in society don't feel pretty unless they wear makeup, and revealing clothes, have a big ass and tits, and a skinny waist. that's the only way we can be attractive. why can't we be attractive with our minds? our minds are such a beautiful perspective.