everyone always say, "if you ever need anyone to talk to, just come to me." and at first, you believe them. You believe that when you have a sudden problem, or something you want to get off your chest, you can go to them. So when you have a good reason to go to them, you can't. You want to go to them, you really do. But the though makes you think, "if I'm sad, and I talked to someone why I'm sad, wouldn't that make them sad?"