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Lil vent right quick cause I'm mad.
So I'm working today, minding my own business and some white ass man starts getting on my case while he was waiting for me to finish his latte.
Asking inappropriate shit like "So you're gay, right? When have you started transition? ( male to female )"
And I'm taken aback. Like dude, it's not you business. I told him "Yeah, I am and I'm not a trans woman."
I'm pretty effeminate but comfortable in my masculinity as well. Like I tie my hair in a little pony tail cause I have a mullet and was wearing cute earrings with lady bugs on them.
He got so defensive after I told him.
He goes on like "Well, why are you throwing it in everyone's face? If you're not a girl why are you dressing like one?"
Than proceeded to tell him "I am who I am. People can turn a blind eye to it if they want to."
I quickly finish his drink and walk off before he could say anything else. That two minute interaction just ruined my day.
I told my coworkers what happened and my boss is like "You can tell them off if they over step like that."
I want to so bad but I don't what to give bad face to the community if I do cause knowing people like that will definitely think all of the community is like that. Like I shouldn't feel bad cause they start shit up!!!!
My dad picked me up from work and I was clearly upset and he asks what's wrong and I can't tell him cause he's religious and homophobic. Idk why I have to deal with it at work than just come home to do it again.
I lied and told him I was tired.
LIKE IT'S MY SECOND DAY BACK!!!!
I know it shouldn't bug me cause it's not the first time and won't be the last. I just hate people!!!