I've had my share of problems in life but I've gotten through it now with the help of my family (even when I probably didn't deserve it...they stuck by me), friends (good to have real friends), and faith.  

Life doesn't always give you roses but you make it what you want.  Nobody has a predetermined fate...it's up to us to decide if we are going to be strong, bitter, nice, caring, spiteful, or thankful for every day we are here on this earth.