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starting my new job tomorrow!!! super excited but also really nervous omg
{ @idkhereisaname } omg, good luck!! i hope it doesn’t end up being a shitty experience or you have annoying coworkers
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Literally about to start blocking any profile who spams the message boards complaining about losing two followers it’s as annoying as general spam like who gaf
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random and maybe too personal but does anyone have any like… tips for therapy? I haven’t been since I was 15 and younger and it was under my dad, and both therapists were not great at the time. One just had casual chats and we dived into nothing, and the next one prescribed pills within 30 mins and didn’t really care more than that lol. I’m finally meeting with someone new as an adult this time, and just don’t really know where to start? I know they’ll probably guide me if they’re a good one, but I don’t think I can just walk in and be like yeah here’s a list of what I think is wrong with me lmao
@idkhereisaname For me, it really helped to know what kind of therapy I was looking for, so I could discuss that with my GP and she could help me find one that could help me with that. Like, I knew that I would likely benefit from schema therapy, so that's what I got. But it sounds like you already have a new therapist (?) I still think that gathering some insight on what kind of therapy you are looking for can help, but in that case, yeah, if you have a good therapist, they should help you figure out what you need. I think it's important to make sure you feel comfortable with your therapist. If it doesn't 'click', they probably won't be able to help you, even if they are good at their job. It has to be a match. All of this probably differs greatly around the world, I have no idea how hard it is to get a therapist where you're from or to switch if it's not a match, etc etc. But if you don't know where to start, well: you started therapy for a reason. That reason is a good place to start. Something is affecting your daily life in a way. You can figure out the exact details and how to deal with them together
I’m sorry like I love the Pitt but I see 0 romantic chemistry between samira and abbott and really do not want them to be canon. But seeing how much fans like it, and apparently even the actors (I think?) said they were flirting and/or confirmed to become a thing so… the one thing that ruins shows for me is unnecessary or forced romance, so we will see where this goes and hopefully onyx doesn’t stop watching…! (Like be seriously Samira literally had better chemistry with Santos. If what short convo Samira and Abbott had that we saw was considered flirting then I really don’t even know anymore…)
@idkhereisaname As someone whose watched the Pitt and absolutely loves it, I would prefer if they kept all of the relationships as platonic because forcing a romance between characters would be so uncomfortable and unbearable to watch. I saw some people shipping Mel with Langdon as if he’s not her senior and he’s married?!! Like people can just be friends and that’s ok! The Bear does a good job at showing how people can be platonically involved and still have a good storyline that is driven by other personal factors
@idkhereisaname it would be a pity to ruin a show with one romance, cause I mean even if people like the ship but they have no chemistry??? I would much rather something I don't personally ship but has chemistry like JJ and Kie in OBX because even though I don't ship that you can see by JJ that he's super into her
@Pouge-Kook-gang yeah literally everything people say was tension literally was just… talking in my eyes? but apparently one or both of the actors of those characters said that they were in fact flirting during that scene and that this couple is supposed to become canon or something like that? I haven’t seen this interview clip yet myself so don’t quote me but yknow. This is literally just my fav show in a long time and I’m really hoping it doesn’t get ruined by some forced straight romance like shows normally do for me lmao
fuck anybody posting spoilers on their message boards for squid games btw AND announcing it you doing that shit on purpose
@idkhereisaname FACTS! I was watching and was getting through season one but all the spoilers I saw I don't even want to watch it anymore
can we not go one fucking day without spoilers for shows maybe?? squid games season 3 is going crazy on tiktok and on here, like stop being rude. were not all unemployed people who have nothing to do but watch shows the second they drop lmao
forget all the popular the Pitt ships I’m on team Santos x Garcia or Santos x Mel hell yeah
finally starting the Pitt hell yeah
