am i the only one that hates when someone writes about a ship, but genderbends only one character? it just irritates and bothers me so much. while i know it's not the case with most of the people that do it, it makes it seem like they didn't like that it was gay so they made it straight by making one character a girl or made one character a guy (when referring to lesbian ships). I just really hate it and tend to avoid people/stories that do that.