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update 2.0: i talked to him and i’m glad because now i actually realized how much of an asshole he is. he literally shouted at me and said i’m not listening to him and don’t understand him. he tried to make himself the victim in the situation. but this isnt about him. it’s about his girlfriend and me. then he tried manipulating me into thinking everything i said never happened and i’m just overreacting and making things up. he said a lot of disrespectful things and randomly started getting jealous over a male friend of mine, that really is only friend, nothing more, and tried to justify his behavior with it. like wtf my friend has nothing to do with this. oh and he tallied shit about his girlfriend. said, for him it wasn’t even a relationship and that he didn’t like to call her his girlfriend in front of his friends. i felt so sorry for her. goddamn this is so fucked up. i tried to stay strong while talking to him and not cry, i didn’t want to give him that kind of satisfaction.