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I am all for shipping and getting inspired to write about them, but not borderline delusional to treat the other party as so "lidol cutest prettiest pink babie princess" even irl.
Don't fucking strip their masculinity off the way you don't want other people to fucking strip off your feminity and vice versa — or if you don't believe in binaries, don't conclude their identities as if they were a foregone conclusion to you.
"it shows"
"it's very obvious"
"he's showing his true self to us"
"you're a top stan, that's why"
Judgmental, aren't we? A stan who thinks they know better than anyone, on top of that.
PS: A personal rant, bringing this here although we didn't have the pissing contest in this app. I'm sorry.