its_rayyy

okay so apparently another one of my friends like me but idk if i like them back. tbh, i think im aro/ace bc intimacy has never really been a thing i wanted but i told them that we should get to know each other better first. and i dont want ot lead them on into thinking we could be something more but theyre also planning this valentines day thing and i dont wanna make them feel bad or embarrassed if i say no. and i dont wanna tell them that i cant be a thing w them bc i literally just told them that we should get to know each other before we officalize anything. but i lowkey think im aro/ace. but i dont wanna hurt their feelings when i tell them that. literally what should i do?

wondersskiss

@its_rayyy honestly just be transparent w them. it's better to be straight with them instead of leading them on. and in the end, if you feel like your not aro/ace, you can always tell them. or if you do end up being aro/ace, just tell them, and continue your friendship. either way, i know it'll work out for you <33
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its_rayyy

okay so apparently another one of my friends like me but idk if i like them back. tbh, i think im aro/ace bc intimacy has never really been a thing i wanted but i told them that we should get to know each other better first. and i dont want ot lead them on into thinking we could be something more but theyre also planning this valentines day thing and i dont wanna make them feel bad or embarrassed if i say no. and i dont wanna tell them that i cant be a thing w them bc i literally just told them that we should get to know each other before we officalize anything. but i lowkey think im aro/ace. but i dont wanna hurt their feelings when i tell them that. literally what should i do?

wondersskiss

@its_rayyy honestly just be transparent w them. it's better to be straight with them instead of leading them on. and in the end, if you feel like your not aro/ace, you can always tell them. or if you do end up being aro/ace, just tell them, and continue your friendship. either way, i know it'll work out for you <33
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its_rayyy

guys. i made the worst decision of my life. i am reading all the young dudes right now. im on chapter 45. i hate how its written so beautifully and i hate how all the characters have such a good relationship with each other and i hate how i know how its going to end. they all deserve better.

its_rayyy

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my friends and i met up at the library today to work on a project and when we were walking to the bus station, i got catcalled by these two old ass men. it was disgusting. my friends just stood by me protectively. the guys were like "i love you baby." as they blew kisses and shit. and ive gotten this before when i take the bus to or from school. i just told him "so does your fucking mom" my friends and i laughed about it afterwards but it was honestly so fucking disgusting. the dude was old enough to be my dad yet there he was, smoking a cigarette as he hit on minors with his friend.  
          
          stay safe out their guys <3

its_rayyy

these randomass fireworks fr be testing my panic attacks

its_rayyy

@sunkissed_bae_ awww no :( i feel so bad for her, she doesnt deserve that
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silverconstelations

@its_rayyy Istg smg
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sunkissed_bae_

@its_rayyy frrrr and it doesn't help my dog has anxiety, storms and fireworks freaks her tf out
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