@itsmonroebitch as someone who has been through this before, I can tell you that there are some sure signs that he only wants you for your luxe. For instance, when my boyfriend and I were dating in high school, he would say things to me like, oh your hair look better this way, or start dressing like this, or delete this. If he truly loves you for you, then he won’t try and change you or say any of those things. Think about the things that he tells you, and see.