@chip1067. I'm not personally gay, but I am panromantic and have friends ranging all over tve queer spectrum so I have some first hand experience. Its kind of hard to describe. You kind of just... KNOW. You need to stop yourself, take a step back and think. "Is this who I am?" If your answer is yes, then chances are, you are of the rainbow family. Its a little bit confusing, I know. Think of it this way, if your straight, you'll know it in a very deep part of your core and being. Its the thing for gay, lesbian, no, pan, ace, demi, trans, fluid, neutral etc. Any other questions?