jheaniilicious

I think letting go and moving on with life, like actually live and enjoy what I have, was the smartest decision I ever made. Even though I loved someone so much, I just couldn’t deal with the pain anymore. I learned how to be good to myself, be kind and stop beating myself up with the past and all those "memories." No doubt the time we spent together were the best times of my life. And no matter how much I wanted to keep someone in my arms, in my life, I couldn’t. There’s no way I could hold onto something that is so determined, desperate to leave, and just walk out on me completely. EVEN IF I still care, it’s not a need anymore. I’m glad I’ve let go.
          	 
          	Moving on, letting go, doesn’t really mean you are giving up. It just means that you have come to a realization where you are now prioritizing yourself, that you know to yourself that you have done your part well, and it is about time for you to be happy.
          	 
          	You don’t need to be angry at the person, you don’t need to understand everything, I guess in my experience it is just plain acceptance. Once you have decided in your mind and in your heart to do so, endless possibilities would come. You would even realize and appreciate more the things and the people around you. Even more to be free from caging in. You can even like new people without the guilt of doing so.
          	 
          	You are not doing it for revenge, hence, DO IT FOR YOUR SELF. Knowing your worth and your self importance would mean a lot. It maybe hard at first but as the waves would go, time would pass, new paradise awaits.
          	 
          	In my end, I am open at anything, and I am certain on the things I do and the things I say and the things I decided to do so.
          	 
          	 I may say that I am not weak, for withstanding the obstacles I have been through. Every single individual has a different way and pace on how they handle things. The important part is to know how to stand up from where you have fallen down.

jheaniilicious

I think letting go and moving on with life, like actually live and enjoy what I have, was the smartest decision I ever made. Even though I loved someone so much, I just couldn’t deal with the pain anymore. I learned how to be good to myself, be kind and stop beating myself up with the past and all those "memories." No doubt the time we spent together were the best times of my life. And no matter how much I wanted to keep someone in my arms, in my life, I couldn’t. There’s no way I could hold onto something that is so determined, desperate to leave, and just walk out on me completely. EVEN IF I still care, it’s not a need anymore. I’m glad I’ve let go.
           
          Moving on, letting go, doesn’t really mean you are giving up. It just means that you have come to a realization where you are now prioritizing yourself, that you know to yourself that you have done your part well, and it is about time for you to be happy.
           
          You don’t need to be angry at the person, you don’t need to understand everything, I guess in my experience it is just plain acceptance. Once you have decided in your mind and in your heart to do so, endless possibilities would come. You would even realize and appreciate more the things and the people around you. Even more to be free from caging in. You can even like new people without the guilt of doing so.
           
          You are not doing it for revenge, hence, DO IT FOR YOUR SELF. Knowing your worth and your self importance would mean a lot. It maybe hard at first but as the waves would go, time would pass, new paradise awaits.
           
          In my end, I am open at anything, and I am certain on the things I do and the things I say and the things I decided to do so.
           
           I may say that I am not weak, for withstanding the obstacles I have been through. Every single individual has a different way and pace on how they handle things. The important part is to know how to stand up from where you have fallen down.