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Warning: I'm going to rant and use swear words
So I recently got into a relationship with a guy, but he lives really far away from me. We've been friends for a while and eventually traded numbers. I've been texting him because we want to talk about random shit.
Well today I had an orchestra concert and texted him that we could talk at certain times and that I was done. I came back home and he started calling then he hung up so I called back. I hear someone else's voice and I'm like "Wtf?". Turns out his mom was calling. She asked me why I was leaving and I explained to her that I had a concert and it clicked to me that she was going through her sons phone. She started saying things like "you shouldn't talk to my son anymore" or things like "your culture is different from ours so you need to stop talking to him". I was not being rude at all to her but she made me feel like I was doing something wrong. I said I wouldn't talk to him anymore but why would I? Honestly she just got me mad at how she is so nosy in her sons life. He really doesn't need her checking every thing he does or who he talks to.
I talked to one of his friends and she said his parents are strict as fuck. She also said that I should still talk to him but not to call. That just lowers choices on how to contact him and ughhh I wish she wasn't fucking bothering me about it. I haven't been able to talk to him recently because of school work and wish I had time.
I just want to talk to my fucking boyfriend but I can't because of his mom. He's honestly one of the nicest people I have ever talked to! It just doesn't help when people are getting in our way. I miss talking to him.