justabirdinthesky
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My wall is a good place to rant. Or PM me and I can turn this place into an anonymous advice column. Like a huge group therapy chat.
justabirdinthesky
@ilikechoccymalk I’m in India right now so I’ve been using that as an excuse to grow apart from them. But thanks! How’s everything on your end?
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ilikechoccymalk
@alleycat_13 Hey alley sooooo I know it’s been awhile since we’ve talked but as your internet therapist bestay it’s my job to make sure your ok. How has it been with the few toxic friendships you’ve been having. Tell me have you cut ties after a few more toxic situations or are you still trying to hang on. Plz let me know as soon as possible.
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justabirdinthesky
First of all. If you disappeared, we'd all be extremely depressed in the therapy chat. And you need professional help for those thoughts. Also, your parents don't WANT a different child. They want you. And think of all your friends who would miss you. And don't say you don't have any bestie you got me. Talk to a school counselor or a teacher. Unless school is out. Then talk to a close friend. And what about your dad? Is he nicer than your mum? You got this. Hold on. Like a monkey. xoxo, ally P.S. I use that trick. A key word of phrase to keep myself in check. It's "I'm cold" to keep myself from crying. It's a quote from a Wattpad book. Use "banana" to remind yourself to hang on.
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ilikechoccymalk
Everything’s been good. Summers been really fun and stuff M us still a problem but other than that I’m feeling good
ilikechoccymalk
@alleycat_13 Also my mum has been yelling in the house a lot even if it’s not at me. Ever since I was little I have been sensitive to loud voices. It makes me kinda just break down. As you probably know I have social anxiety. So sometimes if I’m in a social situation suddenly I’ll look around see all the people and just be on high alert and ny body goes into a state of panic where it finds somewhere to sit down and cry’s. My mom doesn’t believe in this and that really affects my mental health. But I have a great wattpad bestie to help me out :D
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justabirdinthesky
@ilikechoccymalk That’s nice to hear. I had a mental breakdown at like 1:00 am today. My mom keeps asking me what’s wrong and won’t leave me alone. I’m tired of being perfect. I get what you mean when you say you feel your parents would like a different perfect child better. Seriously, Desi families are all just TOXIC.
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justabirdinthesky
My wall is a good place to rant. Or PM me and I can turn this place into an anonymous advice column. Like a huge group therapy chat.
justabirdinthesky
@ilikechoccymalk I’m in India right now so I’ve been using that as an excuse to grow apart from them. But thanks! How’s everything on your end?
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ilikechoccymalk
@alleycat_13 Hey alley sooooo I know it’s been awhile since we’ve talked but as your internet therapist bestay it’s my job to make sure your ok. How has it been with the few toxic friendships you’ve been having. Tell me have you cut ties after a few more toxic situations or are you still trying to hang on. Plz let me know as soon as possible.
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justabirdinthesky
First of all. If you disappeared, we'd all be extremely depressed in the therapy chat. And you need professional help for those thoughts. Also, your parents don't WANT a different child. They want you. And think of all your friends who would miss you. And don't say you don't have any bestie you got me. Talk to a school counselor or a teacher. Unless school is out. Then talk to a close friend. And what about your dad? Is he nicer than your mum? You got this. Hold on. Like a monkey. xoxo, ally P.S. I use that trick. A key word of phrase to keep myself in check. It's "I'm cold" to keep myself from crying. It's a quote from a Wattpad book. Use "banana" to remind yourself to hang on.
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justabirdinthesky
Can I just rant for a bit? Topic: people who say that you can talk to them until you talk too much. Until you’re a burden. A hindrance. Or just plain depressing. I just don't get people who do that. You can't abandon someone when they need you most. When they trust you with things that they don't tell anybody else. When they pour out their heart and soul and suffering and lay it at your feet and you just STOMP on it. You throw it back in their face and make it seem like it's their fault. That they're weak. That what they're going through doesn't matter. That THEY don't matter. Making then think that when the person they trust most doesn’t care about them, that nobody else does either. Eventually, they stop just thinking that and start BELIEVING it. They hide everything behind a fragile paper mask, and when the slightest bit of pressure, the raindrop in the ocean, the grain of rice that tips the scale, cracks it, they're told they're over dramatic. Or that they're overreacting. They don't get the help they need because YOU were weak. They are stronger than you will ever be. Because they made it through this. And you didn't help them when they needed it. You were the raindrop. You were the rice. And yes. I’m calling someone out on this. They’re not on Wattpad. But I needed to get this off of my chest. It was a long time ago. Maybe a year. It doesn’t feel that way though. If you can’t deal with someone, you don’t deserve to be their “friend.” Thank you for listening to my TED Talk. Sorry for bothering y’all.
ilikechoccymalk
@alleycat_13 I have a story about this. So I am very sensitive when it comes to my friends as in if they get a scratch on there knee I panic. So once me and my friends were on the swings at the park and we were just hanging out when one decided to pretend to get hurt knowing that I would run up. She called me overprotective and weak. This of course really hurt and I broke into tears later. I told her that I deeply disliked it and she said sorry but she still makes fun of me sometimes.
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justabirdinthesky
My friend and I were hanging out in the forest just past her backyard. And this group of boys showed up, and one of them said we had to move because they've been working on something here for 8 years. I told them that they barely looked older than 13. (Which is my age.) He said he was 16. My friend was like, "You're a very short sixteen year-old." He pretended to be offended. They left when I reminded him that he was in my third grade class. It turned out he DID remember me, but I had grown a foot, I had moved and he hadn't seen me in 3 years, and my hair was longer. But he remembered my name. So yay me I guess. Just a fun little story for you guys.
justabirdinthesky
I'm writing a story! This is my first one, and I'm going to wait until it's finished to post it. Here's the plot: Aria sees the world in color. Austin sees it in black and white. Aria Mavis lives a relatively normal life. Until, she meets Austin Marshalls. Since the moment they met, in seventh grade, they have hated each other. But when it's revealed that Austin and his family is tangled up in something BIG, can they refrain from killing each other long enough to make it out alive?
ilikechoccymalk
@alleycat_13 sup b. You better not have forgotten bout your favourite wattpad therapist. It’s been too long honestly. Found out I was aromatic and asexual recently so that’s fun. So not when people ask me what gender I like I just say “heh… no” So how’s lifeeeee. If you got tea spill it cuz I need some form of spice in my life rn hun. That’s all for today byeeee
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