Justsoyouknow

@justsoyouknow345 aah I’m so glad! I really hope you’ll enjoy it haha and of course! 

Heyy no problem! The description u put made me very curious! I’m sure I’ll enjoy it thanks for reaching out. 

@cbakaloff Hi there, it’s okay these things sometimes just happens but thanks for your kind words. It’s still going great so yea seems gooddd. 
            
            I’m glad to hear my words lifted some weight! Sometimes people on here feel entitled to things they aren’t entitled too so I do get why there could’ve been some pressure but glad to hear it lifted some for you! 
            
            No there’s really no need to meassure yourself against cause you’re good just the way you are also with your writing. Maybe it will return maybe not what happens happens and that’s alright maybe you’ll find other things u love more at the moment and it’s always good to focus on the good things that bring u joy. 
            
            No need to thank me for that! We both have our lives and it’s great we share some parts with each other but sometimes we just get too caught up but I’ll always look forward to seeing your message too. 
            
            Well I’m doing good and also my friends and family are doing good at the moment I just have the flu which really sucks. I’m not really feeling good anymore at my workplace and I haven’t been for a while. It never has been my dream job and it just went this way because of the many surgeries and stuff. But I’m looking to go back to school as I do want something completely different but yea it’s kinda hard and I’ll need to plan it carefully but that’s something I want to focus on. Personally it sometimes is just rough but yea that’s how life goes sometimes, kinda considering going back to therapy not because of negative thoughts or things like those but yea u get it I think. 
            
            So next time tell me also some more, what u did, what your girlfriend is like anything u also feel comfortable sharing with me. Looking forward to hearing form u again!
            
            Take care,
            
            Fabian.

@justsoyouknow345; Hi Fabian, it’s really good to hear from you. I’m sorry about the setback with your foot, but I’m relieved the medication is helping and that it’s settling down again. I can only imagine how frustrating those flare-ups must feel after you’ve made progress. I hope it continues improving and gives you some consistency.
            
            Thank you for what you said about Louisiana, my girlfriend, and the writing. That meant more than you probably realize. You’re right, it has been a big adjustment, and sometimes I do put too much pressure on myself. Hearing you say there’s no pressure from you actually lifted some of that weight.
            
            I think you’re right that enjoyment matters more than forcing it. I’m trying to remind myself that writing is something I love, not something I need to measure myself against. Maybe it will return naturally once life settles a bit more.
            
            And thank you for understanding the distance at times. That kind of patience means a lot. I appreciate you continuing to show up and share parts of your life with me, too.
            
            I’d really love to hear more about how you’re doing overall. How are things with your friends and family lately? Is work still feeling good after your anniversary? And how are you feeling personally, outside of everything going on with your foot? Share whatever you’re comfortable sharing. I genuinely enjoy hearing about your world.
            
            Take care of yourself, especially that foot. I’ll be looking forward to hearing from you again.
            
            Always, 
            Catherin

@cbakaloff hey there good to hear from you again! Yeaaa I’ve had a setback with my foot and had some inflamation here and there but I got some medication for it from my doctor and now it’s going well again. 
            
            It means a lot to me to hear that our messages mean a lot to you too and I’m also very grateful for the time and effort you put in. 
            
            Yea it’s a good memory and it was a great time so that’s also something.
            
            Soooo Louisiana huh? I get that it’s a big adjustment for you and that with everything that’s happening it’s hard for u to keep writing but it does sound like you’ve got some good things going like with your gf and going to live with her! In time I think everything will work out and if that includes writing or not is up to you. I think it’s importnant to not put too much pressure on it because if you feel pressure you’ll never enjoy it. Maybe when everything works out with your job and those things it will comeback. It’s okay that sometimes you’re distant. Life sometimes keeps us too busy isn’t it? I appreciate that u did reply to me now and just know there’s no pressure from me. I get that sometimes it all gets a bit too much and even the smaller things are too hard to do. 
            
            I’ll look forward to your next message.
            
            Take care,
            Fabian.