justx_prince

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@justx_prince 
          Hello Mister Prince.....
          Good evening and how are you?
          Could we perhaps meet?

There are times when you just sit, and all kinds of thoughts suddenly appear in your mind. You can't stop them. And among those thoughts, you just wish that, for once, people could take your pain from you and feel it themselves—the silent battle you fight every day just to pretend that nothing hurts you.
          
          I'm talking about those people who have a habit of putting others down just to feel superior. They forget that humans have emotions to feel. Even if they can't be there for someone, it's better to not say anything hurtful. They always come up with things like, “Oh, there you go again, complaining like a kid,” “There goes your daily drama and tantrums,” “Try growing up instead of kidding around,” or “Are you really that weak to handle basic problems?”
          
          There are so many other things people say without realizing how deeply hurtful their words can be to someone who is trying their best to keep going while struggling with their emotions and silent battles.
          
          Just know that your emotions are a part of what makes you human. You need emotions to experience life, understand yourself, connect with others, and respond to the world around you. Even emotional numbness can happen when a person has been overwhelmed or emotionally exhausted for a long time.
          
          You are not wrong or weak for feeling this way. You are human, and you are allowed to feel, understand, and slowly heal.
          
          We can't just erase people from our lives. They are going to be there, and some of them will continue to criticize you. But try not to let their words make you believe that the way they treat you is acceptable. Their words don't decide what your emotions should be worth.
          
          I know some battles are too difficult, and sometimes words aren't enough to heal them. But I just hope you never lose hope. Keep going, even if you have to take it one day at a time. You deserve the chance to understand yourself, feel what you feel, and slowly find your way back to yourself.

One of the most common things people are facing is overthinking. It plays a major role in our mental health. You, me, and almost everyone overthink. Some days, it becomes so much that you go completely blank because the dots in your mind start connecting one by one, and that's what overthinking can feel like. It feels like it doesn't have an end. You can't simply put a stop to it, and let me tell you, you can't completely stop your brain from thinking. Your brain is built to think. Sometimes, you just put too much pressure on yourself to think about everything again and again. Your brain functions that way, and overthinking doesn't mean that something is wrong with you. You aren't being too much.
          
          Here, I'm not glorifying overthinking or saying that it is good. I'm just trying to make you understand that thoughts appearing in your mind is normal. It's okay to feel things deeply. You aren't being too sensitive just because you have emotions. You are made with emotions, and those emotions are a part of being human. You aren't a machine or a bot that can simply be switched off. You feel, you experience, and you heal. To be human, emotions are a part of you. Overthinking can't be stopped like switching off a button. You have to learn how to manage your thoughts and emotions instead. Just remember, you are a human being who has to go through the daily roller coaster of emotions.
          
          Your brain will never completely stop thinking. You just need to slowly learn how to think deeply and wisely instead of getting trapped in the same thoughts again and again. Overthinking often involves fear, negativity, assumptions, and repeated thoughts, while deep and thoughtful thinking can help you understand situations more clearly and positively.
          
          Overthinking isn't a disease by itself, so don't keep looking for a quick cure. Instead, learn to understand your thoughts and manage them. It isn't easy, I know, but slowly you can learn how to handle them better. 

You need comfort and positivity in your life whenever you feel down or too overwhelmed. It's natural to look for comfort from the people close to us. But sometimes it's different. There are people out there who care and show up during your worst moments. They try to calm you down, offer kind words, and tell you to stay positive and maintain a positive mindset. They keep telling you not to overthink without any reason. You are told to stay calm, stay positive, act normal, and not do anything that could make things worse. But those same kind and comforting words and actions can feel frustrating to you at that moment. You may feel suffocated, irritated, angry, frustrated, and overwhelmed. And the reason is simple and completely normal.
          
          The reason is that you want people to tell you that your emotions are real and that they make sense because you have been hurt in many ways. Your feelings are valid, and the state you are in is slowly eating you up. You just want people to see your real struggle, the one you can't show them because you are the only one who truly feels it. You can't even explain it to them because sometimes words aren't enough to describe what is actually happening, what you have become, and what you are turning into. You want people to see what has made you this way. You want them to see the reasons behind that pretending face of yours. You want people to tell you, "Yes, we can see it. It isn't easy to handle all of this. You are brave for going through it. Your pain can't be fully described, but it can be seen in the way you have become so good at pretending that everything is okay."
          
          You want people to first notice that something has happened and is still happening, and that it has reached a point where you have started pretending that nothing hurts anymore. But deep inside, the silent battle is at its peak. You are a warrior fighting alone. Let me tell you, you deserve to be seen, heard, and comforted.

Sometimes you feel like you are in a very complicated situation, and everything feels extremely frustrating. You become confused by your own emotions and start behaving differently. Your behavior changes in unusual ways, even you aren't sure what is happening. Everything feels too overwhelming, and it feels like you are going to burst at any moment. These can be signs of mental frustration that has been building up for a long time. It slowly starts taking root inside you and gradually begins to surround you. People begin commenting on your behavior, even behind your back, just because of the sudden changes they notice. All of this adds to your overthinking and makes you feel even more miserable.
          
          We all overthink and make expectations about what might happen. We imagine the worst situations and even predict how people might react. We prepare ourselves for their harsh words and actions, but when we are actually in that situation, everything feels different from what we imagined. Even if you expected the worst in your mind, it still hurts deeply when it really happens. Words hurts, they stay with you like permanent scars. The more you think about them, the more intense the pain becomes.
          
          You are not a machine that people can expect to use however they want. If they can't accept you with your emotions and flaws, then they truly don't deserve you. The more you take their words and behavior to heart, the more it affects your inner peace and your ability to become better. I know I am sitting here giving advice without feeling your pain, but I truly want you to accept yourself with all your emotions and not put yourself down just because people don't know your worth. It's just that some people fail to see your value. If someone made you feel worse today, then please don't blame yourself any further. Sit quietly, give your mind some peace, and don't let negativity take over. People don't always understand what someone else is going through, and that's the truth.

Don't make quick decisions when you are overwhelmed because, at that time, everything feels out of control. Your emotions are at their peak, and they push you towards making the worst decisions. You may do things that you regret later, so it's better not to make your life even more miserable when you are already in a miserable state. All kinds of negative and angry thoughts start appearing in your mind. That negative pull inside you takes control and leads you to make the situation even worse.
          
          I understand these kinds of situations where you are alone, battling with yourself, trying to stay composed for the sake of people who don't understand you or your condition, not even a little. To some people, it looks like overreacting or throwing tantrums, but the reality is very different. One of the biggest problems is when people refuse to even listen to your explanation because, in their minds, nothing you say is right. Sometimes, the environment people create becomes so suffocating that you just want them to forget about your existence. Thinking like this can be a sign that you have been suppressing your feelings for too long, even beyond the stage of emotional numbness. It is a reminder that you need to start paying attention to your mental health.
          
          We are not just living; we are surviving, and that is part of life. To survive, you need to be aware of the situation you are in. There are positive ways to survive, so you don't have to keep running towards negativity. Sometimes, negativity comes running towards you for no reason because it has become a habit, and habits take time to change. How much time? That depends on you. It may look impossible, but it isn't. One of the biggest lies an overthinking mind tells you is that it is impossible to become a better person. If you keep believing that lie, you may never break out of the overthinking loop. The choice is yours. You are worthy of becoming the best version of yourself.

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