jwwoo__
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I'm so fcking done with people telling me, "No one understands what I go through each day, don't try to say you understand. " First off, when did I ever tell you my entire life story? You can't just say I don't understand! What part of me do I show you, huh? You think I don't understand just because I'm 'always happy' but no! I go through much more than you think! Just because you always talk about the problems you have at home, that doesn't mean everyone else does too. For your information, some people actually hate bringing up their problems to a crowd of people, so they don't say a word. I don't tell you what my parents do, I don't tell you what happens at school when you're not there, you know why? Because I try not to let it get to my head, and when it actually does, that's when it hurts. But, that doesn't mean I back down from it, do nothing but tell all of my friends, and then deny any advice they have for me. If someone has advice for you, I suggest you take it. You think that all your problems are worse than anyone elses. That's a matter of opinion, its not a fact. Have you ever even thought about why I sometimes come to school silent? I have nothing to talk about, because there's nothing that I wanted to talk about. Even if I don't say I can breathe, I still can breathe right? So even if I don't say I have problems, I still have them, right? Don't just assume that no one understands you. Someone out there does.
Take2SoNa
@ChocoMalt I know. I totally agree. People like that won't get it even if you try to explain to them. How do I say this, it's like they have given up and hence don't see one's good intentions and it's worth. We'll drain ourselves out trying to make them understand. @ChocoMalt I like your opinions and way of thinking. After reading your and @jwwoo_ I feel we have quite similar views. I sincerely hope both of you take care of yourselves. Eat well. Sleep well. Work hard. Rest well. If anything bothers you guys, I'd be really glad to help. And please, don't think of me as creepy. I've had tons of people misunderstanding me. So, I'll say this, I'm not a creep. :)
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NJMSKIES
author, can you update the 'HIDDEN' please?:((
bangteez_imagines
Hey !! I loved ur idea on the book Can I use it I’ll give credits
Candypopla
Can u please do more Seventeen Deadline?? It SO good!!! Love it!!
ChocoMalt
Your name says Wonwoo, but then Jeonghan has his own story. And your picture is performance team. Your profile is as misleading as a profile can get. Just who is your bias, hm?
jwwoo__
@ChocoMalt Maybe it's Lee Jihoon, or even Xu Minghao, because they're both really talented ( and alive ;) )
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bobatii
I'm not stalking your page, I'm simply reading about it ;)
jwwoo__
I'm so fcking done with people telling me, "No one understands what I go through each day, don't try to say you understand. " First off, when did I ever tell you my entire life story? You can't just say I don't understand! What part of me do I show you, huh? You think I don't understand just because I'm 'always happy' but no! I go through much more than you think! Just because you always talk about the problems you have at home, that doesn't mean everyone else does too. For your information, some people actually hate bringing up their problems to a crowd of people, so they don't say a word. I don't tell you what my parents do, I don't tell you what happens at school when you're not there, you know why? Because I try not to let it get to my head, and when it actually does, that's when it hurts. But, that doesn't mean I back down from it, do nothing but tell all of my friends, and then deny any advice they have for me. If someone has advice for you, I suggest you take it. You think that all your problems are worse than anyone elses. That's a matter of opinion, its not a fact. Have you ever even thought about why I sometimes come to school silent? I have nothing to talk about, because there's nothing that I wanted to talk about. Even if I don't say I can breathe, I still can breathe right? So even if I don't say I have problems, I still have them, right? Don't just assume that no one understands you. Someone out there does.
Take2SoNa
@ChocoMalt I know. I totally agree. People like that won't get it even if you try to explain to them. How do I say this, it's like they have given up and hence don't see one's good intentions and it's worth. We'll drain ourselves out trying to make them understand. @ChocoMalt I like your opinions and way of thinking. After reading your and @jwwoo_ I feel we have quite similar views. I sincerely hope both of you take care of yourselves. Eat well. Sleep well. Work hard. Rest well. If anything bothers you guys, I'd be really glad to help. And please, don't think of me as creepy. I've had tons of people misunderstanding me. So, I'll say this, I'm not a creep. :)
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jwwoo__
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Every single time I see someone upset, they never show their emotions out clearly. What I learned? Every time someone bursts out their emotions, they end up regretting it. They only burst because they don't know how to slowly let out emotions as they go. Always bottling up your emotions doesn't help. As humans, we can't keep holding emotions in forever, they have to come out at some point. And if you keep holding back, you will keep adding to emotions you never let go of. Don't tell me that I can't handle whatever problem you have. Because you probably have been holding it in for so long, you only think that it is something that is worth killing yourself for. Sadly, I've just lost someone I knew because of that reason. I could feel that there was something they were not letting go of. Every time I looked at that person, every time I heard them speak, every time I saw them smile, there was something there they were holding back. I was stupid, because I encouraged them to suck it up, and never complain. That was before I learned that it's not good for people to hold it in. I regret telling them to suck it up because now, I never knew what we could have done to prevent it from happening. Guys, please, it's not good to bottle up all of your emotions. We can keep them inside for an amount of time, and bursting them out is not good. Let out your emotions slowly. Start from there. If any one of you need help, even if I don't know you, just spill out your conflict to me. I will listen, I promise I will but as long as you listen to me too. Please don't hold it in so long. You may say it's gonna be better, to not tell anyone, but you have to let it all out little by little.
Take2SoNa
@jwwoo__ Wow, you actually said everything, I've been trying to tell people at least a billion times. And that's so sweet of you, to think of others before yourself. You know I completely agree with you. With experience I can vouch for the fact that bottling up emotions is never a good thing. Because the moment that you can't hold it in any longer.. you tick off. Everything just comes out like a wave of tsunami. You let it all out in that moment.. saying things that may come out as rude and harsh....but since you've been bottling up your feelings so far, you are not able to realize what you are saying... And once you realize what you've done, there is an instant wave of regret. You regret for letting it all out. You blame yourself, thinking that you should've held it in. You blame yourself for almost everything.. the pity, the sympathy, and even if someone is genuinely concerned for you and tries to give you advice, you push them away. Been there, felt that. So, I completely agree with you. So if you or anyone out there would like to share their concerns, I would be glad to hear you guys out. P.S. I just read Seventeen Deadline. It's amazing!! I'll be honest, I really do hope for you to update soon. And take care of yourself. :)
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jwwoo__
Why doesn't anyone see that I'm trying to help them T^T. I just want them to let out their feelings and I always get "I don't wanna hurt you, I shouldn't put my problems on you" but you're not! Look, if I say let out your feelings on me, just do it. Don't keep saying you wanna protect me from it. It doesn't have to be about me. Or anything I know. Anything you're conflicted about. I won't judge. I won't get mad. Just rant it out to me, and I you'll feel better. I promise you that the only thing you can do that will cause a problem for me is if you lie to me.
ChocoMalt
I like reading these. And I must say, you are one of the only people I would naturally blurt things out to. You're reasonable, you're open-minded and you're mature. You've made yourself totally approachable in all the possible ways. I guess some people just have trouble expressing... :/ it's frustrating and I don't know how to solve it either, but I guess you just keep listening.
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jwwoo__
So there's something called the svt host club and I guess they just opened. What it is, is basically you join the link on @svthc_official and once you join in the welcome you and stuff like that but it's really fun! You request a member and then you're put into a chatroom with the member you requested. It's so fun though omg, tell any carats to join because there's a chatroom just for carats too. I'll be lonely in the hangout if there's no one else I know.