okay hi i've been contemplating this for a while now and i want to say, im nonbinary. i go by all pronouns, however i feel uncomfortable going by she/her the majority of the time. please use he/they when addressing me (if you slip up and call me she/her on accident, it's okay, that's why i say all pronouns !!) im not out to my family, i've tried before in the past and they weren't accepting, so as they still continue to call me she/her, i would prefer everyone else to call me he/they.
another issue that clogged my mind when thinking about this is that, i don't believe im trans, i don't feel dysphoria in the way a trans person feels. im not labelling myself as trans, it's also not my intent to cause harm to the trans community. this whole gender identity thing is just so complicated and i don't want to ponder and wait and be unhappy during the time im trying to find out who i am, so please, bear with me and my identity issues. thank you for understanding !!