Something I hate: When my family goes out to dinner, and they ask us where we would like to go - and we name off a place we don't wanna go; and they go there!! Like, they ask us for our opinion and then the completely disregard that opinion.
For a very specific example; my step-mother pulled us into this food area, it has an array of restauraunts. Subway, Santa Fe Mexican Grill, Hong Kong (a chinese buffet), and some others. We pulled in and stopped, people were just throwing out ideas on where to go because we really didn't have a plan. My Step-sister and i agreed on Subway because we knew we liked to eat the food that they had, and then my step-mom made an exacutive decision on going to mexican. my stepsister grunted in distaste because literally mexican food is gross, and my step mom turned in the car and said "if you don't like it you can sit in the van and starve!"
I hate when she does this, because it happens all the time. she just tells her kids that it's basically "eat food you know you hate or starve because i won't feed you anything else".
i stepped in and say "god forbid someone have an opinion" because yaknow, it's wrong if her to do that. She then told me "i don't care about her opinion, why should i listen?" that's basically saying "if your opinion doesn't match with mine, you don't deserve to have an opinion at all". which infuriated me.