krpfamily

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          	i think something that is so important to address is how people here will go to extents to form a romantic relationship with someone. it's not about roleplay anymore or proper literate scenes, it's about getting as many lovers as possible whether it be through cheating on your current partner or otherwise. i've seen so many characters claiming that they are non-multi (meaning they will only date a single person) however, this suddenly changes when someone "attractive" comes along. needless to say, it's not wrong to date people here, but it is absolutely disgusting to go around this app collecting lovers like souvenirs. 
          	being someone who has stayed up nights convincing their partner to not date someone else/go multi, i really felt guilty afterwards because at the end of the day, it's their character and i'm no one to say anything. but please, please respect the people who you stay in relationships with.

krpfamily

on a side note, really happy and so so proud of people who're reaching out to talk about their issues in krp! might not be able to help a lot but i'll most def try my best
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krpfamily

 #2.
          
          i think something that is so important to address is how people here will go to extents to form a romantic relationship with someone. it's not about roleplay anymore or proper literate scenes, it's about getting as many lovers as possible whether it be through cheating on your current partner or otherwise. i've seen so many characters claiming that they are non-multi (meaning they will only date a single person) however, this suddenly changes when someone "attractive" comes along. needless to say, it's not wrong to date people here, but it is absolutely disgusting to go around this app collecting lovers like souvenirs. 
          being someone who has stayed up nights convincing their partner to not date someone else/go multi, i really felt guilty afterwards because at the end of the day, it's their character and i'm no one to say anything. but please, please respect the people who you stay in relationships with.

krpfamily

on a side note, really happy and so so proud of people who're reaching out to talk about their issues in krp! might not be able to help a lot but i'll most def try my best
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krpfamily

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          okay, so firstly. being a victim to someone who used to tell me they would commit/self harm themselves if i don't continue speaking to them or even to manipulate me in different situations at the age of 15, i want to let you all know that most of the people on wattpad, still, are minors. and we often seem to ignore all the signs of blocking or not associating with someone because we are too attached to characters. 
          when i say that fifteen year old me went through countless sleepless nights to make sure they were okay,  i felt so stupid realizing that all this time they could have just been laughing behind the screen and i'd never know. you can /not/ be there for a complete stranger who in most cases lives thousands of miles away. do /not/ deal with people who constantly drain your energy, if they needed help there are multiple ways to deal with self harm rather than pretending to be a kpop idol and harassing people online. 
          most people also make self harm a part of their character's personality which is so messed up and us, admins, actually get worked up over it.

krpfamily

since people are asking for details, this guy (who lied about self harming) was quite popular on wattpad so most of you would know him. he abused me mentally for more than two years, sexted this one minor's admin, "died" as a character in one of the roleplays after coughing up blood.. (still roleplay) just to break up with someone, used to say that he has been r*ped (i always thought it was in real life where as he made up his own rapist as a character and made "him" speak to me). i could write a whole book about this
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krpfamily

if you have ever been in such a situation, you can always text me and i'll listen. there are so many times when we don't realize the extent of trauma because we don't word it out
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krpfamily

hello! being a former member of the korean roleplay community, i have encountered certain personalities/behaviors and actions that ruined my experience here. of course, it can not be generalized but the extent of toxicity and the lack of regard i have witnessed here, is beyond words

krpfamily

that's all for now, thank you <3
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krpfamily

in this light, i have made this account to address some of the issues i've faced or have seen people face out here. i know it may not change a lot, but i feel the need to do my part for a community i spent so much time with
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krpfamily

whether it be getting into a relationship with a character, or talking to minors/subjecting them to threats of self harm (personal experience) —- it has all gone from a place where people come to get away from their real lives, to making krp a part of their real lives
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