hi! glad you're asking :) i use she/they pronouns, and whenever someone talks abt me, its better to alternate between the she and they pronoun. usually, most people will usually do something like "she/they/theirself", as i myself dont appreciate the "her" pronoun. i think ran is more comfortable (as well as this being more common) to not use "him". im glad you asked btw, your question wasnt offensive in any way! <3