You know that one person that is the really pretty chocolate cupcake you don't want to eat because of these two reasons:
1) They are almost too perfect, but there's no visible flaw so you want to get to see the inside to really get their own personal "taste" (personality)
2) Someone else has dug their dirty little claws into them and is flaunting it in front of your face, but you can't slap them because you might hurt that precious little cupcake, and you don't want to do that.