There is so many things that we wish we can change but truth is that you can't but that doesn't mean you can't try.

my dad is dying and as much as I pray to my god Jehovah his death is something I can't prevent 

My advise to you guys is to forgive and forget because you never know when you're gonna loose them sometimes we think that to forgive we need that person to say "sorry" but truth is not many know how to do it anymore and it's on you to know that if that person ever dies you won't be grieving saying that you could have done that or you could have said that. no do them now because trust me I didn't apply this until the doctors told me my daddy only would survive at least three months

the Bible says that the wise learn from others mistakes but the real question is are you gonna be the wise one?